I think that movie (Hitch) tells us alot about ourselves, and people in general.
Alex Hitchens aka 'Hitch' is a 'consultant' who helps guys get the girls of their dreams, telling them what to do and teaching them how to act. But what he doesn't realise is that, it's not what he teaches them what to do or how to act that the girls like, but them being Themselves.
Now why do you think i'm saying this? Because we live in a society, where everyone's trying to be someone they're not. Guys trying to be gangsters, Girls trying to be models when, if you ask the opposite sex what they want, all they want is someone they can be comfortable around and who cares about them...
my whole point is, why try being something you're not =/ you may think you're an individual but look at yourself...are you really an individual? or is one thing that a person may say affect you so much that you change yourself?
you're probably thinking, course i'm an individual, i wouldn't change if someone asked me to! but think about this, in the past, say for a relo, have you changed the way you acted? the way you dressed? the way you spoke? or lets say with a certain group of people, same thing, the way you acted, dressed or spoke?
This may be hard to believe but individuality is very rare. Nowadays EVERYONE thinks they're an individual that it's so hard to find an individual LOL!
an individual, is a person who makes that style, who makes you change the way you act, or speak, or dress! he/she have their own opinion, are respected for who they are and don't change...for nobody cause they're happy the way they are.
and hence this brings me right back to the start, be happy with who u are cause people love u 4 u, not who you're trying 2 be =]
song of the day: Common - Be
Quote of the day: Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself - Harvey Fierstein
- Adzz
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